Normal forgetfulness or something more sinister?


I was trying to use the word See-Saw yesterday and couldn’t pull it up.  After acting out the term in an unwanted game of Charades, someone supplied the forgotten term.

This seems to be happening more and more.  Yesterday I was trying to think of the name of a plant I have in my garden. It just wouldn’t come – still won’t.


If you’re concerned about your memory, see the lists below prepared by Johns Hopkins’ researchers in which they compare symptoms of normal aging with those of more serious dementia.

Occasional memory lapses, such as forgetting why you walked into a room (I was doing this in my twenties, when my kids were babies) or having difficulty recalling a person’s name, become more common as we approach our 50s and 60s. While frustrating, it’s comforting to know that this minor forgetfulness is a normal sign of aging, not a sign of dementia.

But other types of memory loss, such as forgetting appointments or becoming momentarily disoriented in a familiar place, may indicate mild cognitive impairment. In the most serious form of memory impairment — dementia — people often find themselves disoriented in time and place and unable to name common objects or recognize once-familiar people.

Here are examples of the types of memory problems common in normal age-related forgetfulness, mild cognitive impairment, and dementia.


  • Occasionally has to “search” for a word.
  • Occasionally forgets to run an errand.
  • May forget an event from the distant past.
  • When driving, may momentarily forget where to turn. Quickly orients self.
  • Jokes about memory loss.
  • Sometimes misplaces keys, eyeglasses, or other items. (How bout ALL the time?)
  • Momentarily forgets an acquaintance’s name.


  • Frequently misplaces items.
  • Frequently forgets people’s names and is slow to recall them.
  • Finding words becomes more difficult.
  • Begins to forget important events and appointments.
  • May forget more recent events or newly learned information.
  • May temporarily become lost more often.
  • May have trouble understanding and following a map.
  • Worries about memory loss. Family and friends notice the lapses.


  • Forgets what an item is used for or puts it in an inappropriate place.
  • May not remember knowing a person.
  • Begins to lose language skills. May withdraw from social interaction.
  • Loses sense of time. Doesn’t know what day it is.
  • Short-term memory is seriously impaired. Has difficulty learning and remembering new information.
  • Becomes easily disoriented or lost in familiar places, sometimes for hours.
  • May have little or no awareness of cognitive problems.

Oh, I just remembered – Clematis!!!  That’s the plant name I couldn’t pull up.  I guess I’ll do like my Dad when he can’t think of a word.  He says, “My computer is down temporarily. I’ll get back to you on that.”

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